MY CHIC INTUITION
CHIC TOPICS: DATING, ASTROLOGY, FASHION, PSYCHOLOGY, POP CULTURE AND MUCH MORE
MY CHIC INTUITION
Hearts Aligned with the Cosmos and Listener Bonds
Have you ever matched with someone who seemed perfect on paper only to find the spark wasn't quite there in person? Join me, Carmen Ramos, as we explore the whimsical world of dating through astrological signs with Blush, the AI-assisted LA dating app that's shaking things up on the romantic front. I'll take you through my frosty but charming holiday escapade with a jeweler whose dogs and spontaneous plans painted a vibrant picture of New York's streets. We'll dissect the hand-kissing incident and ponder over the magic and mishaps of planning – or not planning – the ideal date.
Gratitude is the heart's memory, and in this episode of "My Chic Intuition," I'm pouring mine out to you, my incredible listeners. Your unwavering support and astute feedback turn this podcast into our shared space for self-discovery and communal growth. Together, we're building a mosaic of experiences, each piece a story shared, a lesson learned, or a laugh echoed. So curl up, tune in, and let's continue this beautiful journey of life and love, with all its complexities, hand in hand.
Hi everyone, welcome back. My name is Carmen Ramos and you're listening to my Sheik Intuition. Happy New Year, it's 2024 and I let me guess everyone's trying to decide how to date, who to date, what their goals and relationship goals are. And I'm here for it. See, I'm on the same boat as you guys and I'm just, you know, swirling around town trying to meet my person. With that being said, I just decided to go on a new app that one of my friends created and he's just like hey, like, do you want to try this app? And I said, okay, sure, like what is it? He's like it's a dating app. It's pretty cool. It's, you know, it sees your compatibility with your zodiac signs and it also like was the age? And what I like about this app is that the guys have an AI, you know chat. So if they are stuck on like how they don't know how to like approach dating or, you know, dating this kind of person, they can ask the AI to help them and they have options to send flowers. They have options to, you know, give gift cards. It's like the cutest app and it's called Blush. I love it so much.
Speaker 1:I've been like on it and I literally recently met someone. It's LA based, but, know this, the people that are on these apps well, the Blush app, it's basically it's like Raya on steroids, so it has to be invite only and you have to meet certain requirements to get on the app. So I'm on the app and I'm swiping and I see this guy like likes me. So I was like, okay, let me check who he is. And I see the compatibility and I was like, oh, okay, he seems compatible, whatever. So I matched him. He's an LA and he's like, hey, I'm going to be in New York, he's a jeweler. So he was like I'm going to have my showing in Berkdorf Goodman, because he has, like, his collection that they're, you know, showcasing for the holidays. So he was like, you know, maybe we can spend some time while there and, you know, get to know each other more and whatever. And I was like, okay, great, like this is great, Okay. So let me break it down to you.
Speaker 1:People on these apps are very successful men and women who can just go anywhere at any time or are somewhere at any time. So it's an easy way to like meet the people that you kind of want to associate yourself with and also match with. And so, you know, he comes to town, he texts me and he's like hey, I'm finally in New York, Like I want to see you. So I'm like, okay, great. And we're talking on the phone and he's like, okay, so do you want to spend Christmas Day together? And I've never done that and I was like you know what? I've never done this holiday with someone. Okay, cool, Maybe.
Speaker 1:My delusional self was like oh, maybe he's the one because we're spending holidays together. So we're like deciding what to do, whatever. So he's like, oh, I have my two dogs. He sends me pictures of his little munchkins. They are like the cutest little guys ever. And he mentions like, hey, I think I'm just going to bring them out with us. And I was like, okay.
Speaker 1:I didn't know, though, for our date, that we were going to be walking a lot with these munchkins. And we walked in Soho, we walked in the West Village, and then we made our way to the Meatpacking District. What was kind of a red flag to me was when we were just walking around aimlessly, not knowing where we were going, and we just ended up going to Sarah Fina for dinner, and we have these dogs. So you know, restaurants in New York City. It's not like LA, like where you can just bring your dogs anywhere. New York is a little bit more like picky with that. So we ended up going to Sarah Fina and sitting outside and it's a little cold too, so but they did have like the heaters that were, like you know, working, but I was still cold and you know we were ordering food. Thank God they had some gluten free options, because now I'm gluten free. So you know we were ordering.
Speaker 1:Then we got into deep conversations about my family, my life, about him and everything, and we were vibing and everything. And then, I don't know, then he just like started kissing my hands and I was like overly kissing my hands. I was like, oh my God, I don't know, this is a little uncomfortable and I feel a little off. And also he would also like go to the bathroom, maybe like twice during our day and like I had to take care of the dogs and like they were they're so cute, Like they're like the cutest little guys, they're like one was like wandering off and I was like, oh my God, it's a little stressful. So I felt like it was overwhelming, especially for a first date, Like I would have been better just sitting, getting to know somebody and then, maybe a second date, go out and walk the dogs and, like you know, vibe out. So, with that being said, if a man does not have something he's planned, what I should have done is, right before him asking me to go out. I should have been like, hey, what do you have in mind so we can have, like you know, our date plan, rather than walking the dogs aimlessly and then just finding a random restaurant and like sitting there and then, yeah, being cold and everything. It wasn't the worst date, Like this has not. I'm not saying like this is like the worst date, but it's one of the dates that unfortunately didn't work out and he's been very busy and I've been like not really entertaining it either. So, yeah, that was that date.
Speaker 1:Well, now we have to talk about the elephant in the room. Aquarius is now moving into Pluto for the next 20 years and everybody has to brace themselves and the signs that are gonna be more transformative right now are gonna be Aquarius, and I'm excited because I'm an Aquarius, and what's going to be happening now. It's like rebirth and death of old ways, and just things that were occult are gonna come to light, so, and also technology. So you're gonna see a lot of innovations or things being stopped, or there's gonna be so many transformative things that you won't even recognize your Aquarius friends now, because they're stepping into their power, leaving things that they don't necessarily need anymore and jumping into things that are meaningful and they're on target, like let's go, they're on go mode. So, if you have anything that's like rising your moon or your sun is in Aquarius, the next 20 years is gonna be something really, really amazing.
Speaker 1:And, with that being said, everyone I just wanna thank you guys for always tuning in and listening to me and listening and going through my journey and I love the feedback. I love when you guys let me know like, hey, you maybe messed up here or maybe like that person was just not it, and I just love hearing those things and progressing. And to me, to my person, because this thing I'm doing is very vulnerable and I'm putting myself out there and I love how everybody's just with me on this journey. So, with that being said, thank you so much. My name is Carmen Ramos and you're listening to my Chic Intuition. This time we're gonna all take another step. Just kids music.